My day usually does not allow me to sit and watch much t.v.,I am pretty behind on this whole ISIS thing, so I am one to admit I am vastly behind on new articles, that makes me the worst person to talk to regard current events most of the time, but I heard about this new thing that has me pretty excited.
Now please keep in mind that MY OPINIONS stem from a MALE perspective to an option that could possible SAVE millions of men everywhere from some life changing consequences because let’s face it, do we need more irresponsible guys making children when they can’t even take care of themselves???
Vasalgel - the male birth control option is making waves. Now let me begin by saying that I am a huge supporter of birth control, especially for men, but let’s be honest, the options for us men are few, as stated from
Abstinence, outercourse, withdrawal, condoms, and vasectomy. I want to go over these options and how I feel about them.
First off - abstinence. Sure, I’ll become some kind of asexual alien, or just turn into Morrissey…..
Secondly - outercourse. Atleast were getting some action now! A handy, or even a little oral action is better than nothing.
Moving onto to withdrawal. NOPE - boys, we’re playing Russian roulette here. I do not condone this at all. The risks of this method do not justify the small moment of pleasure that you’ll experience. The risks that I’m talking about are unwanted pregnancy, and this is exactly what we’re trying to avoid here. We do not truly know the person we are with, and we do not know if they use any form of birth control, or to the extreme - support abortions I want us to be responsible here, and I am trying to promote responsibility for my brothers.
Now condoms. I think these are great!! I always use one regardless of the person, but as much as I love and promote condom use, I always say use YOUR OWN. There are those women out there who are shady and will compromise the integrity of the condom by poking a hole into it, Boys, use a condom, they have all kinds that will groove with you, USE A GODDAMN CONDOM, oh and if she says that shes allergic to latex, there are alternatives you can read more about them here. http://www.livestrong.com/article/137895-what-are-types-condoms/
Come on boys, I cannot stress this enough, JUST WRAP IT UP!
Finally the vasectomy. Now I think this is the WAY to go to prevent unwanted pregnancies and combined with condoms,you will save your self from stds. Sure getting a vasectomy is going to hurt after, and depending on how long you had it done, it can be reversed if you so do desire.
Wow, that was one hell of an aside for the options of male birth control, but I wanted to go over these most common methods for men, and like I said, give my opinions on them. As you can see I do believe in a combination of vasectomy and condoms, but this new option is great!!! Essentially it’s an injection to the vas deferens that will stop our little troops. Yes it nay be in the testing phase but if and when it gets clearance to be tested on willing participants I am sure we are going to see amazing results.
Guys, I say this because I care. I don’t see much promoting male issues, and I want to change that. Let’s be responsible, think with your head. I highly doubt you are ready to have a kid, and if you think you are, seriously do your research and look at the facts and figures before you make your final decision. Raising a child can go upwards to $243,340 for food, shelter, and other expenses up to the age 18. (source http://blowmeuptom.com/is-it-really-worth-it-245340-cost-of-raising-a-child-born-in-2013/ ) If you are ready to take on this en devour, power to you, but remember one thing, you’re in it for the long haul,